This is for you if:

You are scared the closeness you have always had with her is slipping away.

You have typed a text to your daughter and deleted it three times.

You have felt left out, and then felt guilty for feeling left out.

You have been told to stay in your lane, and it made you quieter, not closer.

This is not another list of mother of the bride duties. No checklists, no etiquette rules, and no “just be supportive.” It is the role transition no one prepared you for, and the actual words to walk through it.

Whether the wedding is two years away or already behind you, this Conversation was written for you.

Mothers join from across the US, Canada, the UK, Ireland, Australia, and South Africa every Thursday.

“I thought it was just me!”

“Absolutely. You are speaking to me and exactly what I’ve been feeling and experiencing.”

“You made me realize that I should stop just trying to ‘survive’ as MOB, but rather the goal is to come through it with peace and a deeper relationship with my daughter!!”

“Eggshells!!! Yes, on texts!”

“I can connect with this.”

“Thank you for this better perspective!”

From afraid of losing her, to “the day far exceeded my dreams for her”

Kerry came in afraid of a no contact relationship after the wedding.

“I kept coming back to the things you shared with me. Thanks for helping to make the day even better. It was wonderful to be in the moment. The day far exceeded my dreams for her.”

Kerry, Mother of the Bride

A steady and safe place on the wedding day

Carole walked through the whole season with me before her daughter’s wedding.

“All of your advice helped me be a steady and safe place for her. I handled it so much better with you than I would have.”

Carole, Mother of the Bride

From dread to excitement, joy, and pride

Caroline came in dreading the wedding.

“It’s not the dread I had before I started working with you. It’s excitement and joy and pride.”

Caroline, Mother of the Bride

What will I actually walk away with?

The exact words to send your daughter this week, and a clear way to know when to speak up, when to help, and when to just be happy with her.

Is it really free?

Yes. This hour is my gift to you. Near the end, I will share how I work with mothers personally, for anyone who wants that kind of support.

Will anyone see me?

No. There is no camera, and anything you write in the chat comes only to me.

What if I cannot stay for the whole hour?

Come for what you can. The replay comes to your inbox as soon as we finish.